How to Ask Your Current Manager for a Reference

RWR Construction has been named a finalist in the SEEK SARA Awards 2026 in two categories. The team is up for Small Recruitment Agency of the Year, and Managing Director Ginny Ryder is up for Recruitment Leader of the Year.

Technical brilliance won't save a project if the relationships around it fall apart. That's the reality of leadership. Every major project in New Zealand runs on relationships. Clients, consultants, contractors and subcontractors all need to move in the same direction, often with different priorities and different pressures. Leadership at the top holds it together, or lets it fall apart. Here's what separates leaders who manage these relationships well from those who don't. Clarity over comfort Strong relationship managers don't avoid hard conversations. They have them early, clearly and respectfully. Leaders who dodge difficult topics to keep the peace tend to store up bigger problems for later. Look for candidates who can demonstrate direct, respectful communic ation under pressure. Genuine stakeholder management, not just reporting There's a big difference between updating a client and managing a client. The best understand what each stakeholder needs, not just what they say they need, and adjust their approach accordingly. That takes judgement, not just a status report template. Consistency across every relationship A leader who's warm with clients but dismissive with subcontractors is building a fragile network. Look for candidates who treat every relationship, client, consultant or contractor, with the same level of respect and professionalism. It shows up in team culture and in project outcomes. Commercial awareness in every conversation Every relationship in construction has a commercial dimension. Strong leaders understand this and negotiate accordingly, protecting margin and programme without damaging trust. Ask candidates how they've handled a commercial disagreement with a client or consultant. Their answer will reveal how they balance relationship and result. Proven conflict resolution Disagreements are inevitable on complex projects. What matters is how quickly and how well they get resolved. Ask for specific examples. A leader who can describe how they turned a tense client relationship around is showing you exactly what you need to see. Checklist for your next appointment ☐ Can they demonstrate clear communication under pressure? ☐ Have they genuinely managed stakeholders, not just reported to them? ☐ Are they consistent across every relationship type? ☐ Can they balance commercial outcomes with trust? ☐ Do they have an example of resolving conflict well? The strength of your leadership team shows up first in the strength of its relationships. At RWR Construction, we place permanent leaders across New Zealand's construction, engineering and infrastructure sectors who know how to manage every relationship a project depends on. Looking for a leader who can hold it all together? Visit www.rwrconstruction.co.nz/contact-us

Your business today won't be the same in three years. So why hire leaders who can only handle where you are right now? Across New Zealand's construction, engineering and infrastructure sectors, growth is rarely steady. It comes in bursts: new contracts, new regions, new scale. The leaders you appoint today need to grow with that.. Here's what to look for when hiring for scale, not just for now Look past the current job description. Most businesses hire for the role in front of them. The smarter move is hiring for the role the business will need in eighteen months. Ask candidates how they'd approach the job if headcount doubled, or if the business moved into a new region. Their answer tells you more than their CV ever will. Test adaptability, not just experience Experience shows what someone has done. It doesn't show what they can do next. Look for leaders who've operated across different business sizes, structures or sectors. That range often predicts scalability better than years in a single role. Prioritise systems thinking Leaders who scale well think in systems, not just tasks. They build processes that don't rely on them being in the room. Ask candidates how they've set up teams, reporting lines or handover processes in past roles. If they can only describe their own workload, that's a red flag. Look for people who build people A leader who can scale with your business is one who grows other leaders underneath them. Ask about who they've mentored, promoted or backed. A strong bench is one of the clearest signs of leadership built for growth. Assess how they handle ambiguity Growing businesses rarely have everything mapped out. Leaders who need certainty before they act will slow you down exactly when you need speed. Look for calm decision-making in the face of incomplete information. It's a strong indicator of how they'll perform as the business scales. Key takeaways Hire for where the business is going, not just where it is Test adaptability and systems thinking, not only technical experience Look for leaders who develop other leaders Prioritise calm decision-making under ambiguity Growth is the goal. The right leadership is what makes it sustainable. At RWR Construction, we specialise in placing permanent leaders across New Zealand's construction, engineering and infrastructure sectors- people who can grow with your business, not just fill today's gap. Ready to hire for the business you're building? Visit www.rwrconstruction.co.nz/contact-us

You've got the resume. You've got the runs on the board. So why does the right role still feel out of reach? In New Zealand's construction, engineering and infrastructure sectors, hiring has changed. Employers aren't just filling seats. They're building teams that can carry a business through growth, risk and change. If you're aiming for a leadership or role, here's what's landing on the shortlist. Commercial judgement, not just technical skill Technical competence gets you in the room. It doesn't get you the job. Employers want leaders who understand margin, risk and programme in the same breath. They want people who can read a P&L as confidently as they read a set of drawings. If you can talk numbers and outcomes, not just delivery, you stand out immediately. Proof of leading through pressure - every construction business has a project that went sideways. Employers want to know how you handled it. Did you keep the client onside? Did you protect the team? Did you find a way through without losing your head or your credibility? Stories beat rehearsed answers every time. Cultural fit that goes both ways. Hiring is rarely just about credentials. It's about whether you'll fit the culture, and whether the culture will bring out your best work. Employers are looking harder at how candidates communicate, how they handle feedback, and how they show up under pressure. Be honest about what environment helps you thrive. It saves everyone time. Evidence of scalability Can you grow with the business? That's the question behind most interviews. Employers want leaders who've shown they can step up as a company grows, not just manage what already exists. Talk about the moments you took on more responsibility and delivered. A track record of managing relationships, not just projects Clients, consultants, subcontractors, regulators. Construction roles are relationship-heavy. Employers want to see you've built trust across all of these, not just delivered the physical build. If you've managed a difficult client relationship to a good outcome, that story matters more than another technical achievement. Quick self-check before your next interview Can you explain a project's commercial outcome, not just its physical outcome? Do you have a clear, honest story about a project under pressure? Can you show how you've grown into bigger responsibility over time? Can you point to relationships you've built and protected, not just projects you've delivered? If you ticked most of those, you're closer than you think.  The right opportunity is about fit as much as experience. At RWR Construction, we work with New Zealand's construction, engineering and infrastructure leaders to match genuine capability with genuine opportunity. Ready for your next move? Visit www.rwrconstruction.co.nz/contact-us and let's talk about where you fit.

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